Hot Married Sex

Erotic photography can be a turn-on for many married couples, and I’m not really talking about just looking at it. Actually grabbing a camera and taking erotic pictures of each other in various states of dress and/or undress can do wonders for the libido.

Exactly why erotic photography is so powerful a tool is difficult to pinpoint. Some people simply like the idea of their spouse getting turned on by looking at them – it makes them feel more desirable and, yes, maybe they get a thrill from being viewed as an “object of lust”. Others find that posing for erotic shots makes them feel more confident as a sexual being. And still others like the whole “power play” of directing or being directed to pose in a certain way, adopt a certain look, and so on.

If you and your spouse would like to consider exploring erotic photography, here are some suggestions to get you started:

Make sure you’re both keen. Taking erotic photos is only a turn-on if you both enjoy it. If one of you doesn’t want to take photos, drop the whole subject and find something that you’re both keen to try. There will be plenty of other ideas presented in this blog so come back often or subscribe to our RSS feed for inspiration.

Decide what kind of photos you want to take. Do you want to take pictures of each other, or will just one of you be the model? Clothed, semi-clothed or nude? Do you want the pictures to be softcore and erotic or hardcore and explicit? There are no right or wrong answers to these questions, but establishing your goal at the outset will ensure that you proceed accordingly.

Use a digital camera. If you only have a camera with film then buy a digital camera and any accessories you might need (our own Hot Married Sex store has a HOME MOVIES page that might be helpful) otherwise you might blush when you collect your pictures after processing.

Enjoy the photography. Most couples enjoy taking the photos more than looking at them afterwards, so enjoy the experience fully. Get into the fun of it, get turned on and – as if you needed any encouragement – have great sex afterwards.

Review and purge. After you have taken your first batch of photos, review them together and decide which ones are keepers and which ones you want to delete. Continually reviewing and purging older photos whenever you take new ones is a good way of ensuring you don’t end up with thousands of images when you only want a few dozen.

Store your photos securely. The keepers should be stored securely – a USB pen drive can be handy for this, as it can be kept in your bedside drawer. If you decide to store your photos on the drive of your main PC, put them in a secure folder and don’t forget to delete them if you sell the computer at a later date, otherwise you could end up more famous than you might like.

Erotic photography is more about attitude than looks. Few of us have “Perfect 10” physiques, and in reality few of us find Perfect 10’s very appealing, so if you have the desire to take erotic pictures with your spouse, go for it. Who knows? You might even progress to making home movies…