Hot Married Sex

Here’s a great oral sex video about the dilemma men face when they want to orgasm in the mouth of their partner, but aren’t allowed to do so. I wouldn’t really describe it as a dilemma (if she doesn’t want you to do that, don’t do it is my advice) but take a look at what Dan and Jennifer have to say on the subject.

Oral sex techniques can help you to increase the amount of satisfaction that your partner gets from oral sex itself, and also increase the intensity of their eventual orgasm.

Here are some oral sex techniques that you can use to drive your lover wild in bed…

Fellatio Techniques

1 - Don’t be afraid of using your hand and masturbating your man whilst you have his cock in your mouth. Although the head (or glans, if you prefer) is the most sensitive part of the penis, stimulating the shaft as well will add a lot to his pleasure.

2 - Use your tongue in different ways. Flick the head of his cock with the tip of your tongue, rub the underside of the shaft (just below the head) with the flat of your tongue and feel free to take his cock out of your mouth and lick it like an ice cream.

3 - Make eye contact. Men are visually stimulated, so look at him when you’re giving him head and let him see how much you’re enjoying it.

4 - Act ravenous. Men love the idea of their wives being hungry for their cocks, so let yourself go and be enthusiastic about it. Just be careful with your teeth, please.

5 - If your hub wants to come in your mouth and you’re not keen because you don’t want his load hitting the back of your throat and making you gag, you can do what many porn stars do and tuck the head of his dick under your tongue as he comes. This will control the flow at the moment of ejaculation and you can then spit or swallow when he has finished.

Cunnilingus Techniques

1 - Don’t go straight for the clitoris. Instead, spend some time licking and gently sucking the lips of her pussy before circling the clit and – eventually – stimulating it directly with your tongue.

2 - You can use your tongue in many different ways (as I told women a few moments ago). Try lapping at her with your tongue loose and flat or using the tip of your tongue to provide more direct massage. You can also try stimulating her clit with the underside of your tongue, as many women love the sensation that gives.

3 - Use your fingers at the same time as you eat your woman out. Insert a finger or two (with the pads of your fingertips facing the ceiling, assuming she’s lying on her back) and massage her G Spot gently at first and then as firmly as she likes when she gets closer to orgasm.

4 - Some women – though by no means all – also like a finger inserted in their anus during cunnilingus. If you aren’t sure about this, either ask her beforehand or have the little finger of your free hand lubed and in the vicinity of her ass as you eat her out. Ever so lightly touch her anus and if she likes what you’re doing she’ll automatically bear down on your finger or tell you to go for it. Just remember that once a finger or anything else has been near her ass, you should never use it to stimulate her clitoral or vaginal region, as this could cause an infection.

Is driving your spouse wild in bed as easy as using these oral sex techniques? Try them tonight and find out!

In my previous post on Screaming Orgasms I somehow – accidentally, inadvertently, and undeliberately – used the phrase “muff-diving” to refer to the act of cunnilingus. It has now come to my attention that said “muff-diving” is a term that some women don’t like.

Maybe it’s because it makes cunnilingus sound like an Olympic sport. Or maybe some women don’t like to refer to their muffs as muffs because they shave their pubes. In this case, would a shaved muff be better referred to as a buff? And would buff-diving then be a similarly unacceptable term?

It never ceases to amaze me how language divides people, especially in the area of sexuality. Should we say vagina, pussy or something else? Should we say penis, cock or dick? Is cunnilingus preferable to muff-diving, eating out or drinking from the furry bowl? And what about fellatio? Is that really any more polite than saying cock-sucking or dick-licking?

Some people could get offended when I refer to hot sex as “fucking”, because they might assume that fucking doesn’t involve love. But for me, it does, because I only ever fuck my wife, and I love her to bits. And that brings me to my point, which is this: words can only be offensive when the person being offended brings their own definition to those words.

When I say muff-diving I mean the fine art of going down on my lady and performing a loving act of cunnilingus. That’s my definition of the phrase, so I don’t find it offensive or intend offence when I use it. However, if you picture a guy standing on a diving board wearing a snorkel and flippers, about to make a leap of faith into an overgrown pussy – sorry, vagina – then I can understand how it might not be such a pretty phrase for you. But remember, YOU put that guy in flippers, not me.

So, whilst you’re here, make yourself useful and tell me what words you prefer to use for the following. Also tell me which words for the following turn you on the most, if those are different:

1 – Penis
2 – Vagina
3 – Sexual Intercourse
4 – Fellatio
5 – Cunnilingus