Hot Married Sex

Manners and etiquette aren’t the most popular words of the 21st century, but they are essential if you want to enjoy hot married sex on a regular basis. If talking about manners and etiquette is likely to make you fall asleep then just think of something called The Dating Mentality.

My view is that if more married men and women worked on adopting the same attitude to their partner as they did when they first started dating them, the level of sexual intimacy and heat they would enjoy as a married couple would go through the roof. Why? Because most couples simply don’t try as hard to impress after a few years of marriage as they did in the beginning.

Think back to the time when you first started dating your spouse. The chances are that you were very particular about the way you presented yourself – paying attention to everything from the clothes and cologne that you wore right through to the words you used in general conversation. Guys, you probably tried hard to do gentlemanly things like opening doors and pulling out chairs for your partner. Ladies, you probably tried hard to flirt and look interested without being pushy. And you know what? All of this stuff worked, because here you are, years later with wedding rings on your fingers.

But where did The Dating Mentality go? If you’re like most couples, you probably allowed it to sneak off when nobody was looking. And although years of being together have brought you far closer than you were back in the beginning, the more relaxed attitude probably means that neither of you are as mindful of the impression you make on your partner as you once were.

My suggestion for today is that you go back to how you were right at the beginning of your relationship and brush up The Dating Mentality. Present yourself carefully to make the best impression you can on your partner and enjoy flirting and playing as you did back then. Not only will your partner find the more obvious interest compelling, it will help you both to tap into the connection that lies at the heart of your relationship. And, yes, you’ll probably enjoy hotter married sex as a result…

Hot sex is a great stress management tool, and by making sure that you enjoy hot sex on a regular basis, you can dramatically decrease the chances of being overwhelmed by the trials tensions of daily life. Some people rely on pills and potions to keep their stress levels under control, but hot sex is a much more natural – and arguably much safer – alternative.

We all know that physical exercise helps to reduce stress, but few people remember that hot sex – sex that gets your heart racing – is just as much a form of exercise as swimming, jogging or using a Stairmaster. Okay, you might not burn quite as many calories in bed as you would on a treadmill, but you will still increase your heart rate, release feel-good chemicals (endorphins) and burn up the feel-bad chemical cortisol.

I know that if I go more than a couple of days without having sex, I get stressed very easily. I also know that when I get stressed I feel less like having sex. This is a common situation, but if you aren’t aware of it you could well find yourself in a place where you never feel like having sex and you think the solution is to wait until you feel less stressed. Lots of couples fall into this trap, and as a result they can go for weeks, months or even years without sex, eventually concluding that “sex is overrated anyway” and settling for a life of celibacy by default.

There’s nothing wrong with celibacy if it’s a deliberate lifestyle choice and you happen to be single, but in a marriage sex is a very important glue that helps to hold the relationship together, so allowing stress to slowly dissolve that glue is potentially allowing the relationship itself to weaken.

If regular sex helps to relieve stress and keep a marriage strong, whilst irregular sex allows stress to build up and can put the marriage at risk over the long term, it makes sense to take sex seriously. So be wise and make a point of enjoying hot sex regularly with your spouse. Remember, a hot fuck a day keeps the Prozac at bay…

Sex games are a great way of spicing up your sex life, and you don’t need to invest a lot of time or cash to start benefiting from them. In fact, there are several hot games you could play tonight if you already have a few common items around the house.

Sexy Hangman
Grab a notepad and pencil and play hangman, but instead of having your partner guess the names of movies or books, focus on sexual statements of intention such as: “I want to lick you out” or “I want to give you a blow job”. See how many statements you can work through before you start acting them out.

Strip Sex Games
You can turn almost any card or board game into a sex game simply by agreeing to remove an item of clothing whenever you do badly. For example, you could play snakes and ladders and strip something off whenever you slide down a snake, or you could play checkers and strip something off whenever your partner takes one of your pieces.

Strip Twister
Okay, so I’ve already suggested strip games, but Twister is so unique that it warrants its own paragraph as a completely separate sex game. Basically, all you have to do here is play twister and get your partner to remove an item of clothing every time they fall over. Play long enough and at least one of you should be naked. Hmmm. That Twister mat is made of plastic. Be careful with the lube or you might slip.

Truth or Dare
You don’t need any props at all for this sex game. Yep, it’s that old favourite Truth or Dare. Turn the lights low, open a bottle of your favourite beverage and sit together on a warm sofa, then take it in turns to choose a Truth or Dare. If your partner chooses a Truth, ask them something that will force them to reveal more of their sexual psyche. For example, “How many times have you thought of sex today?” If they choose a Dare, consider it an invitation to boss them around for a moment. For example, to paraphrase a couple of statements I gave earlier, you could say “I dare you to lick me out” or “I dare you to give me a blow job”.

I’m sure there are other sex games that you and your spouse can enjoy together, but the ideas given here should at least be enough to get you through the weekend, and you’re sure to be a winner no matter what happens…

In an effort to keep things fresh here at Hot Married Sex, today’s post is a piece of erotica for women. It’s explicit and might not be to the taste of everyone, so don’t say you haven’t been warned. Comments are welcome. Enjoy!

So you’re sitting there in front of your computer reading my blog. I knew you would. I know how you like to check up on me and see what I’m writing. You might pretend to be prim and proper on the outside, but what goes on inside that pretty head of yours is a very different story.

In the privacy of your own mind you have all sorts of dirty thoughts. In fact, you’re a bit of a dirty little slut, aren’t you? Don’t worry, I won’t tell.

I like to imagine you reading these words. I like to imagine watching you. You’re sat there with your legs slightly open. Open them a bit wider so that I can get a better view. That’s right. Hmmm. So tempting…

How does it feel when I kneel down in front of you, place one hand on each of your knees and force your legs apart even further? I lean forward and kiss the fabric of your panties, nuzzling your crotch. I run the tip of my tongue along the edge of your panties, then maybe pull them aside when you least expect it.

You like me to circle your clit with my tongue, don’t you? To suck, gently at first, and then a little harder. My hands support your ass, lifting you slightly so that I can work your pussy more effectively with my mouth, my tongue running along your groove and then suddenly probing your opening.

You like being tongue-fucked, I can tell, but I’m not here to serve. I’m here to give you the pleasure of being used. I stand up and unbutton my jeans, then unzip my fly. I grab the back of your head and pull you toward my crotch as I bring my erect cock out to play. I don’t wait for you to give your permission, I just slide my cock into your hot mouth and start thrusting slowly, my hand still supporting your head.

Hmmm. You’re greedy. You’re taking it so deep that you make the occasional gagging noise, and your eyes are watering. Black rivulets of mascara are running down your cheeks. Makes you look like a common whore.

And you like that, don’t you?

I withdraw from your mouth, pull you to your feet and make you stand over your desk with your hands palm-down on the surface. Behind you, I take a look at the sumptuous curves of your ass and lift your skirt, then pull your panties down and let them fall to your ankles. I enter you quickly, perhaps a little roughly, grabbing a handful of your hair with my left hand as my thrusting establishes a rhythm.

You like being taken like this. You can’t see me because of my position, but you can certainly feel my cock driving into you again and again.

Harder.

Faster.

Deeper.

I reach around and find your clit with my right hand, rubbing you hard and fast as my cock continues to shaft your hot, tight pussy. Rubbing in small circles, you begin writhing until you feel the warm wave of your orgasm exploding through your body.

I wait for your climax to subside, then withdraw and turn you around. A hand on your shoulder pushes you down onto your knees and I quickly bring my penis back to your lips, then slide it over the surface of your tongue into your mouth.

Finish me, bitch.

That’s right. Work it like a pro. Let me hold your head as I fuck your face. I’m gonna cum any minute. I’m gonna –

I grunt as the urge to shoot in your mouth overwhelms me and you immediately start sucking me dry. You have an evil glint in your eye that tells me you love the sense of power and control that this gives you. For a long moment, I’m putty in your hands, and you know it. When you’re done, you lick your lips salaciously and pat me on the ass before tidying yourself up and getting on with your business.

Now who’s been using who? I wonder…

Sexual Magnetism is a quality that some people have which makes you start thinking all kinds of hot, nasty, sinful thoughts as soon as you lay eyes on them. It’s sexual magnetism that gets the libido racing, makes panties damp and turns a flaccid penis into a raging hard-on.

The really good news is that anyone can increase the amount of sexual magnetism they radiate. All you have to do is follow a few simple tips. So, if the idea of silently compelling your spouse to desire you like never before is one that appeals to you, work through my step-by-step guide and make it happen…

Get Confident
First, realise that sexual magnetism is all about self-confidence. You can’t be sexually magnetic if you aren’t confident, so get yourself into a strong, confident frame of mind. Know that you’re sexy and desirable. If you don’t believe that to be true, imagine how confident you would feel if it were true. Once you’ve got that feeling, hang onto it and pretend it’s yours. Act confident and you’ll feel confident.

Magnify Your Magnetism
Next, make sure you dress the part. Sexual magnetism is magnified if you present yourself properly. Whilst a strong force of magnetism will shine through even a pair of old dungarees, putting it in a pair of stockings and heels (for women) or a smart shirt and chinos (for men) will increase the effect it has on the people around you.

Unleash Your Inner Porn Star
Now that you feel confident and look confident, you need to make sure your walk and talk make the grade. Porn stars can use their body language and speech to radiate sex even when they’re not on set, and you can do the same. Unleash your inner porn star so that you move and communicate like someone who the whole world wants to get into bed with and you’ll soon notice that your spouse is a lot more interested than usual.

Employ Innuendo
Sexually magnetic people are masters of innuendo, and they can use a conversation about anything to put explicit thoughts in your head. Start employing the art of innuendo yourself by using words and phrases that can just as easily be associated with sexuality as they can with the subject at hand. For example:

Innuendo for Men

I guess you’ll just have to suck it and see.
You’re a real handful sometimes.
Yes, I know it’s hard, but sometimes hard is good.
There’s nothing wrong with be open.

Innuendo for Women

Sorry. If I do that again, just bend me over and spank me.
Is it as hard as it looks?
Did you want to come too?
We should turn the TV off and turn something else on instead.

Follow the four tips I have presented here and you will not only increase the amount of sexual magnetism you radiate, you will also notice a surge in the libido of your spouse. What happens next is up to you….