Hot Married Sex

In an effort to keep things fresh here at Hot Married Sex, today’s post is a piece of erotica for women. It’s explicit and might not be to the taste of everyone, so don’t say you haven’t been warned. Comments are welcome. Enjoy!

So you’re sitting there in front of your computer reading my blog. I knew you would. I know how you like to check up on me and see what I’m writing. You might pretend to be prim and proper on the outside, but what goes on inside that pretty head of yours is a very different story.

In the privacy of your own mind you have all sorts of dirty thoughts. In fact, you’re a bit of a dirty little slut, aren’t you? Don’t worry, I won’t tell.

I like to imagine you reading these words. I like to imagine watching you. You’re sat there with your legs slightly open. Open them a bit wider so that I can get a better view. That’s right. Hmmm. So tempting…

How does it feel when I kneel down in front of you, place one hand on each of your knees and force your legs apart even further? I lean forward and kiss the fabric of your panties, nuzzling your crotch. I run the tip of my tongue along the edge of your panties, then maybe pull them aside when you least expect it.

You like me to circle your clit with my tongue, don’t you? To suck, gently at first, and then a little harder. My hands support your ass, lifting you slightly so that I can work your pussy more effectively with my mouth, my tongue running along your groove and then suddenly probing your opening.

You like being tongue-fucked, I can tell, but I’m not here to serve. I’m here to give you the pleasure of being used. I stand up and unbutton my jeans, then unzip my fly. I grab the back of your head and pull you toward my crotch as I bring my erect cock out to play. I don’t wait for you to give your permission, I just slide my cock into your hot mouth and start thrusting slowly, my hand still supporting your head.

Hmmm. You’re greedy. You’re taking it so deep that you make the occasional gagging noise, and your eyes are watering. Black rivulets of mascara are running down your cheeks. Makes you look like a common whore.

And you like that, don’t you?

I withdraw from your mouth, pull you to your feet and make you stand over your desk with your hands palm-down on the surface. Behind you, I take a look at the sumptuous curves of your ass and lift your skirt, then pull your panties down and let them fall to your ankles. I enter you quickly, perhaps a little roughly, grabbing a handful of your hair with my left hand as my thrusting establishes a rhythm.

You like being taken like this. You can’t see me because of my position, but you can certainly feel my cock driving into you again and again.

Harder.

Faster.

Deeper.

I reach around and find your clit with my right hand, rubbing you hard and fast as my cock continues to shaft your hot, tight pussy. Rubbing in small circles, you begin writhing until you feel the warm wave of your orgasm exploding through your body.

I wait for your climax to subside, then withdraw and turn you around. A hand on your shoulder pushes you down onto your knees and I quickly bring my penis back to your lips, then slide it over the surface of your tongue into your mouth.

Finish me, bitch.

That’s right. Work it like a pro. Let me hold your head as I fuck your face. I’m gonna cum any minute. I’m gonna –

I grunt as the urge to shoot in your mouth overwhelms me and you immediately start sucking me dry. You have an evil glint in your eye that tells me you love the sense of power and control that this gives you. For a long moment, I’m putty in your hands, and you know it. When you’re done, you lick your lips salaciously and pat me on the ass before tidying yourself up and getting on with your business.

Now who’s been using who? I wonder…

How to spice up your sex life is a question that lots of people are asking. I am fortunate that I enjoy a hot married sex life, but I know that there are plenty of couples who don’t. So, for the benefit of those who want hotter married sex, today’s post provides a number of tips on how to spice things up.

To start with, define exactly how you want your sex life to improve. Do you just want more married sex? Or do you want to be more adventurous? Maybe you want to try and unleash the “slut wife” that you believe is hiding within your spouse. Or perhaps you want sex with your husband to be more aggressive and less pedestrian. Whatever the case, knowing what you want is the best place to begin.

Once you have defined what you want, ask yourself if your husband or wife has ever been that way before. For example, if you want your husband to be more dominant in bed, ask yourself if he’s ever been dominant in bed. If he has, try and figure out what triggered him to be like that, and then work on creating a similar situation that might trigger him to dominate you in the same way. The same applies for men. If your wife has previously revealed a slutty side, ask yourself what triggered it and then work on triggering it again in a similar way. Sometimes the simple act of deliberately pushing the buttons of your husband or wife can be enough to spice things up considerably.

If your spouse has never been the way you want them to be, you need to bring the subject up in conversation. It is often a good idea to suggest a role play scenario so that the spicier sex life is proposed as a one-off experience. For example, if you are pursuing the whole “wife slut” idea, you could suggest that you role play a scenario in which she is a nasty, naughty slut. Or, if you want your husband to be more dominant, you could suggest that he fucks you harder and more forcefully than usual. Exactly how you phrase your suggestions will depend on your spouse – your aim should be to make the role play sound appealing, not appalling.

Another good way of spicing up married sex is to introduce them to new ideas less directly. Buy some erotic fiction or sexually explicit movies to share together, and suggest that it might be fun to act out some of the scenarios that you are both enjoying.

My last suggestion is to be as direct as possible. Sit down with your husband or wife and say that you think it would be a good idea for the two of you to spice things up a bit. Then ask them if they have any ideas about how you might go about it. You could well be surprised to discover that your spouse is just as keen as you are to make your husband and wife sex even hotter.

Sexual Magnetism is a quality that some people have which makes you start thinking all kinds of hot, nasty, sinful thoughts as soon as you lay eyes on them. It’s sexual magnetism that gets the libido racing, makes panties damp and turns a flaccid penis into a raging hard-on.

The really good news is that anyone can increase the amount of sexual magnetism they radiate. All you have to do is follow a few simple tips. So, if the idea of silently compelling your spouse to desire you like never before is one that appeals to you, work through my step-by-step guide and make it happen…

Get Confident
First, realise that sexual magnetism is all about self-confidence. You can’t be sexually magnetic if you aren’t confident, so get yourself into a strong, confident frame of mind. Know that you’re sexy and desirable. If you don’t believe that to be true, imagine how confident you would feel if it were true. Once you’ve got that feeling, hang onto it and pretend it’s yours. Act confident and you’ll feel confident.

Magnify Your Magnetism
Next, make sure you dress the part. Sexual magnetism is magnified if you present yourself properly. Whilst a strong force of magnetism will shine through even a pair of old dungarees, putting it in a pair of stockings and heels (for women) or a smart shirt and chinos (for men) will increase the effect it has on the people around you.

Unleash Your Inner Porn Star
Now that you feel confident and look confident, you need to make sure your walk and talk make the grade. Porn stars can use their body language and speech to radiate sex even when they’re not on set, and you can do the same. Unleash your inner porn star so that you move and communicate like someone who the whole world wants to get into bed with and you’ll soon notice that your spouse is a lot more interested than usual.

Employ Innuendo
Sexually magnetic people are masters of innuendo, and they can use a conversation about anything to put explicit thoughts in your head. Start employing the art of innuendo yourself by using words and phrases that can just as easily be associated with sexuality as they can with the subject at hand. For example:

Innuendo for Men

I guess you’ll just have to suck it and see.
You’re a real handful sometimes.
Yes, I know it’s hard, but sometimes hard is good.
There’s nothing wrong with be open.

Innuendo for Women

Sorry. If I do that again, just bend me over and spank me.
Is it as hard as it looks?
Did you want to come too?
We should turn the TV off and turn something else on instead.

Follow the four tips I have presented here and you will not only increase the amount of sexual magnetism you radiate, you will also notice a surge in the libido of your spouse. What happens next is up to you….

In my previous post on Screaming Orgasms I somehow – accidentally, inadvertently, and undeliberately – used the phrase “muff-diving” to refer to the act of cunnilingus. It has now come to my attention that said “muff-diving” is a term that some women don’t like.

Maybe it’s because it makes cunnilingus sound like an Olympic sport. Or maybe some women don’t like to refer to their muffs as muffs because they shave their pubes. In this case, would a shaved muff be better referred to as a buff? And would buff-diving then be a similarly unacceptable term?

It never ceases to amaze me how language divides people, especially in the area of sexuality. Should we say vagina, pussy or something else? Should we say penis, cock or dick? Is cunnilingus preferable to muff-diving, eating out or drinking from the furry bowl? And what about fellatio? Is that really any more polite than saying cock-sucking or dick-licking?

Some people could get offended when I refer to hot sex as “fucking”, because they might assume that fucking doesn’t involve love. But for me, it does, because I only ever fuck my wife, and I love her to bits. And that brings me to my point, which is this: words can only be offensive when the person being offended brings their own definition to those words.

When I say muff-diving I mean the fine art of going down on my lady and performing a loving act of cunnilingus. That’s my definition of the phrase, so I don’t find it offensive or intend offence when I use it. However, if you picture a guy standing on a diving board wearing a snorkel and flippers, about to make a leap of faith into an overgrown pussy – sorry, vagina – then I can understand how it might not be such a pretty phrase for you. But remember, YOU put that guy in flippers, not me.

So, whilst you’re here, make yourself useful and tell me what words you prefer to use for the following. Also tell me which words for the following turn you on the most, if those are different:

1 – Penis
2 – Vagina
3 – Sexual Intercourse
4 – Fellatio
5 – Cunnilingus

Today my wife and I are celebrating our 18th wedding anniversary, which means we’ve been together now for two whole decades. Those of you who haven’t been married long will be pleased to hear that the relationship gets better, the marriage gets stronger and the sex gets hotter as time goes on.

Eighteen years ago we were both in our very early twenties and fairly naïve about life in general as well as about how creative sex could be. We’ve discovered together what it’s all about, and there have been plenty of laughs, quarrels, tears, low points and high points along the way. But the bottom line is that I love my wife more today than I did when I married her – and she still makes my boat float on a regular basis.

We’re celebrating the way we always celebrate – with a bottle of champagne and some hot anniversary sex. For those of you who are wondering, anniversary sex is a bit like Friday Night Filth, but it comes along just once a year and we tend to be a tad more romantic than usual. Well, we start out that way…

Sex is great. Hot sex is better. But hot married sex is, in my opinion, the best there is, and I intend to continue enjoying it with my wife for the rest of my nights.