Hot Married Sex

Hot sex is a great stress management tool, and by making sure that you enjoy hot sex on a regular basis, you can dramatically decrease the chances of being overwhelmed by the trials tensions of daily life. Some people rely on pills and potions to keep their stress levels under control, but hot sex is a much more natural – and arguably much safer – alternative.

We all know that physical exercise helps to reduce stress, but few people remember that hot sex – sex that gets your heart racing – is just as much a form of exercise as swimming, jogging or using a Stairmaster. Okay, you might not burn quite as many calories in bed as you would on a treadmill, but you will still increase your heart rate, release feel-good chemicals (endorphins) and burn up the feel-bad chemical cortisol.

I know that if I go more than a couple of days without having sex, I get stressed very easily. I also know that when I get stressed I feel less like having sex. This is a common situation, but if you aren’t aware of it you could well find yourself in a place where you never feel like having sex and you think the solution is to wait until you feel less stressed. Lots of couples fall into this trap, and as a result they can go for weeks, months or even years without sex, eventually concluding that “sex is overrated anyway” and settling for a life of celibacy by default.

There’s nothing wrong with celibacy if it’s a deliberate lifestyle choice and you happen to be single, but in a marriage sex is a very important glue that helps to hold the relationship together, so allowing stress to slowly dissolve that glue is potentially allowing the relationship itself to weaken.

If regular sex helps to relieve stress and keep a marriage strong, whilst irregular sex allows stress to build up and can put the marriage at risk over the long term, it makes sense to take sex seriously. So be wise and make a point of enjoying hot sex regularly with your spouse. Remember, a hot fuck a day keeps the Prozac at bay…

Sex games are a great way of spicing up your sex life, and you don’t need to invest a lot of time or cash to start benefiting from them. In fact, there are several hot games you could play tonight if you already have a few common items around the house.

Sexy Hangman
Grab a notepad and pencil and play hangman, but instead of having your partner guess the names of movies or books, focus on sexual statements of intention such as: “I want to lick you out” or “I want to give you a blow job”. See how many statements you can work through before you start acting them out.

Strip Sex Games
You can turn almost any card or board game into a sex game simply by agreeing to remove an item of clothing whenever you do badly. For example, you could play snakes and ladders and strip something off whenever you slide down a snake, or you could play checkers and strip something off whenever your partner takes one of your pieces.

Strip Twister
Okay, so I’ve already suggested strip games, but Twister is so unique that it warrants its own paragraph as a completely separate sex game. Basically, all you have to do here is play twister and get your partner to remove an item of clothing every time they fall over. Play long enough and at least one of you should be naked. Hmmm. That Twister mat is made of plastic. Be careful with the lube or you might slip.

Truth or Dare
You don’t need any props at all for this sex game. Yep, it’s that old favourite Truth or Dare. Turn the lights low, open a bottle of your favourite beverage and sit together on a warm sofa, then take it in turns to choose a Truth or Dare. If your partner chooses a Truth, ask them something that will force them to reveal more of their sexual psyche. For example, “How many times have you thought of sex today?” If they choose a Dare, consider it an invitation to boss them around for a moment. For example, to paraphrase a couple of statements I gave earlier, you could say “I dare you to lick me out” or “I dare you to give me a blow job”.

I’m sure there are other sex games that you and your spouse can enjoy together, but the ideas given here should at least be enough to get you through the weekend, and you’re sure to be a winner no matter what happens…

In an effort to keep things fresh here at Hot Married Sex, today’s post is a piece of erotica for women. It’s explicit and might not be to the taste of everyone, so don’t say you haven’t been warned. Comments are welcome. Enjoy!

So you’re sitting there in front of your computer reading my blog. I knew you would. I know how you like to check up on me and see what I’m writing. You might pretend to be prim and proper on the outside, but what goes on inside that pretty head of yours is a very different story.

In the privacy of your own mind you have all sorts of dirty thoughts. In fact, you’re a bit of a dirty little slut, aren’t you? Don’t worry, I won’t tell.

I like to imagine you reading these words. I like to imagine watching you. You’re sat there with your legs slightly open. Open them a bit wider so that I can get a better view. That’s right. Hmmm. So tempting…

How does it feel when I kneel down in front of you, place one hand on each of your knees and force your legs apart even further? I lean forward and kiss the fabric of your panties, nuzzling your crotch. I run the tip of my tongue along the edge of your panties, then maybe pull them aside when you least expect it.

You like me to circle your clit with my tongue, don’t you? To suck, gently at first, and then a little harder. My hands support your ass, lifting you slightly so that I can work your pussy more effectively with my mouth, my tongue running along your groove and then suddenly probing your opening.

You like being tongue-fucked, I can tell, but I’m not here to serve. I’m here to give you the pleasure of being used. I stand up and unbutton my jeans, then unzip my fly. I grab the back of your head and pull you toward my crotch as I bring my erect cock out to play. I don’t wait for you to give your permission, I just slide my cock into your hot mouth and start thrusting slowly, my hand still supporting your head.

Hmmm. You’re greedy. You’re taking it so deep that you make the occasional gagging noise, and your eyes are watering. Black rivulets of mascara are running down your cheeks. Makes you look like a common whore.

And you like that, don’t you?

I withdraw from your mouth, pull you to your feet and make you stand over your desk with your hands palm-down on the surface. Behind you, I take a look at the sumptuous curves of your ass and lift your skirt, then pull your panties down and let them fall to your ankles. I enter you quickly, perhaps a little roughly, grabbing a handful of your hair with my left hand as my thrusting establishes a rhythm.

You like being taken like this. You can’t see me because of my position, but you can certainly feel my cock driving into you again and again.

Harder.

Faster.

Deeper.

I reach around and find your clit with my right hand, rubbing you hard and fast as my cock continues to shaft your hot, tight pussy. Rubbing in small circles, you begin writhing until you feel the warm wave of your orgasm exploding through your body.

I wait for your climax to subside, then withdraw and turn you around. A hand on your shoulder pushes you down onto your knees and I quickly bring my penis back to your lips, then slide it over the surface of your tongue into your mouth.

Finish me, bitch.

That’s right. Work it like a pro. Let me hold your head as I fuck your face. I’m gonna cum any minute. I’m gonna –

I grunt as the urge to shoot in your mouth overwhelms me and you immediately start sucking me dry. You have an evil glint in your eye that tells me you love the sense of power and control that this gives you. For a long moment, I’m putty in your hands, and you know it. When you’re done, you lick your lips salaciously and pat me on the ass before tidying yourself up and getting on with your business.

Now who’s been using who? I wonder…

Today my wife and I are celebrating our 18th wedding anniversary, which means we’ve been together now for two whole decades. Those of you who haven’t been married long will be pleased to hear that the relationship gets better, the marriage gets stronger and the sex gets hotter as time goes on.

Eighteen years ago we were both in our very early twenties and fairly naïve about life in general as well as about how creative sex could be. We’ve discovered together what it’s all about, and there have been plenty of laughs, quarrels, tears, low points and high points along the way. But the bottom line is that I love my wife more today than I did when I married her – and she still makes my boat float on a regular basis.

We’re celebrating the way we always celebrate – with a bottle of champagne and some hot anniversary sex. For those of you who are wondering, anniversary sex is a bit like Friday Night Filth, but it comes along just once a year and we tend to be a tad more romantic than usual. Well, we start out that way…

Sex is great. Hot sex is better. But hot married sex is, in my opinion, the best there is, and I intend to continue enjoying it with my wife for the rest of my nights.

Screaming orgasms might sound like the title of a porn movie, but a screaming orgasm is actually a goal that many couples aspire to achieve. I suppose a screaming orgasm could best be defined as an orgasm so powerful that the lady in question can’t help but make a particularly loud noise, but men can experience the same kind of intensity too – we just tend to grunt rather than squeal.

There is nothing that can guarantee a screaming orgasm (other than getting the wife to deliberately scream when it happens, which is cheating) but there are several steps we can take to make it more likely. I’m writing here primarily for men who want to help their wives experience a screamer, but women who are reading can just as easily apply the same principles to help their husbands crank up the volume when they cum.

Build Up
A screaming orgasm is much more likely if the build up to that orgasm has been lengthy. I don’t just mean 30 or 60 minutes of foreplay, I mean hours of teasing throughout the day. Use dirty talk to get you wife revved up to the point of dampness. Maybe use a little manual stimulation to bring her to the very edge. Then back off until she cools off. Do this several times throughout the day and by the time she gets to bed she should be almost ready to climb the walls.

Avoid The Obvious
When you finally get to the bedroom, you should avoid getting straight down to business. By all means stroke the insides of her thighs, and circle your finger around her clit, but don’t actually push her button or make contact where she wants you to make contact. A good rule of thumb is to spend 15 minutes of foreplay caressing her everywhere except where she really wants to be caressed. It sounds like torture, and it probably is, but it’s a very loving and erotic kind of torture that she will ultimately appreciate.

Take Several Runs
When you feel the time is right, do whatever you normally do to get your wife off. If she has any preferences about how she prefers to orgasm, go for her favourite. Some women like to come through intercourse. Many more would prefer you to practice your muff-diving skills. Others like oral and digital stimulation combined, so both your tongue and your fingers should get involved.

However you go for it, bring her to the edge of orgasm and then stop dead. Withdraw your cock, withdraw your fingers and come up for air. Let the moment subside. Then start again, bringing her to the edge and backing off. Do this several times. If she begins calling you names and writhing like a snake, you know you’re doing it right.

The Big Finish
Having taken several runs at the objective, it’s now time to go for the big finish, but don’t tell her “this is it” or you’ll spoil the element of surprise. Repeat whatever you did in the previous step (that is, deliver her favourite form of stimulation) but this time keep going until he reaches her climax. And keep on going. Continuing to stimulate your wife as she orgasms can often extend that orgasm quite considerably, so don’t stop until she’s totally spent.

You might not help your wife to have screaming orgasms every time you use the ideas presented here, but you’ll certainly help her to achieve orgasms that make her want to scream. And in my book, that’s just as good.