Hot Married Sex

Here’s a great oral sex video about the dilemma men face when they want to orgasm in the mouth of their partner, but aren’t allowed to do so. I wouldn’t really describe it as a dilemma (if she doesn’t want you to do that, don’t do it is my advice) but take a look at what Dan and Jennifer have to say on the subject.

This is part two of my Phone Sex story, so if you haven’t yet read the first part, take a quick detour to Phone Sex - Part I and do so now. Otherwise, read on, and expect explicit language.

     “Lie back on the bed and open your legs, wide.”
     His voice on the other end of the phone was calm yet commanding, and she didn’t hesitate do follow his instructions the moment he had uttered them.
     “Okay,” she said.
     “Where are your hands?”
     “My left is holding the phone.”
     “And your right hand?”
     She smiled and glanced down at her right hand.
      “Stroking.”
      “Stroking what?”
      “You know what.”
      “I do. But I want you to be specific.”
      “I’m stroking my pussy.”
      “Try again.”
      “I’m stroking my hot, tight, pussy. And I’m getting very wet listening to you.”
      She loved the way he always insisted on her stating the obvious, and on describing what she was doing in as much detail as possible. She knew that he got turned on listening to her talk dirty, and if the truth be told, it always turned her on just as much.  
      “Start rubbing your clit,” he said. “And as you do, tell me what you’re thinking.”
      “Okay,” she said. “I’m thinking about the last time I was with you. You had me tied to the bed and you tongue fucked me for what seemed like hours. I looked down at you and saw that animal look you get in your eyes when you’re eating me out.” Although she wasn’t totally aware of it, her right hand was steadily gathering speed as she related the thoughts to him.
      “I made you talk like a dirty slut that night, didn’t I?”
      “Yes,” she said, and her pussy twinged at the memory.
      “Well it would make sense for you to do the same again, seeing as you’re thinking about that night anyway.”
      “What do you want me to say?”
      “Can’t you remember what you said the last time?” he laughed.
      “Oh, I can remember,” she said. The fact was, she’d thought of it constantly for a couple of days, and had to change several pairs of panties as a consequence.
      “Go on then. Talk to me.”
      “I want you to fuck me,” she said.
      “How?”
      “Hard. I want you to make me your dirty little slut. I want you to take me. Own me. Use me.”
      “I am using you. Right now.”
      “God, yeah. I know. And I fucking love it.
      Her right hand was rubbing hard on her clit, which had swollen considerably in the last couple of minutes.
      “I want your cock,” she said. “I need it. So fucking badly.”
      “Keep going, but don’t cum until I say you can.”
      She swallowed hard, her breathing already quite shallow.
      “I want you to pin my hands down above my head and fuck me hard. I want you to call me names.”
      “Like what?”
      “Nasty names. Bitch. Whore. Slut. Call me a cock tease and tell me you’re gonna give it to me hard to teach me a lesson. Oh, god, yes…”
      “Alright. Stop.”
      His voice was firm and final.
      “What?”
      “Take your hand away from your pussy and stop. That’s all for tonight.”
      She did as he commanded, but her clit was aching. Another minute or so and she would have cum big time.
      “You bastard. You can’t expect me to stop, just like that. Finish me.” She gritted her teeth. “Finish me now.”
      “Maybe next time,” he said, and hung up.

* * * * * * * *

      He enjoyed the last mouthful of bourbon and put the empty glass down on the table. A glance at the clock told him it was nine thirty. He rose from his armchair, flicked off the lamp in the corner of the room and headed upstairs.
      You’ve got to keep them keen, he thought with a smile. Besides, she really does love being teased. She just wasn’t expecting you to let her get that far…
      When he reached the top of the stairs he flicked off the hall light and pushed open the door. She threw a cushion at him as soon as he entered the room.
      “That’s for letting me get so worked up,” she said. “You did it deliberately.”
      “Yes,” he said.
      “She tried not to smile, but didn’t quite succeed. “Sometimes I wonder why I ever married you in the first place,” she said.
      “You married me because you knew you’d enjoy playing games like this.”
      He smiled and closed the door. Tonight they’d fuck like demons, and all it had taken was half an hour of creative preparation. Whoever said married sex was boring needed to get themselves some education.

Oral sex techniques can help you to increase the amount of satisfaction that your partner gets from oral sex itself, and also increase the intensity of their eventual orgasm.

Here are some oral sex techniques that you can use to drive your lover wild in bed…

Fellatio Techniques

1 - Don’t be afraid of using your hand and masturbating your man whilst you have his cock in your mouth. Although the head (or glans, if you prefer) is the most sensitive part of the penis, stimulating the shaft as well will add a lot to his pleasure.

2 - Use your tongue in different ways. Flick the head of his cock with the tip of your tongue, rub the underside of the shaft (just below the head) with the flat of your tongue and feel free to take his cock out of your mouth and lick it like an ice cream.

3 - Make eye contact. Men are visually stimulated, so look at him when you’re giving him head and let him see how much you’re enjoying it.

4 - Act ravenous. Men love the idea of their wives being hungry for their cocks, so let yourself go and be enthusiastic about it. Just be careful with your teeth, please.

5 - If your hub wants to come in your mouth and you’re not keen because you don’t want his load hitting the back of your throat and making you gag, you can do what many porn stars do and tuck the head of his dick under your tongue as he comes. This will control the flow at the moment of ejaculation and you can then spit or swallow when he has finished.

Cunnilingus Techniques

1 - Don’t go straight for the clitoris. Instead, spend some time licking and gently sucking the lips of her pussy before circling the clit and – eventually – stimulating it directly with your tongue.

2 - You can use your tongue in many different ways (as I told women a few moments ago). Try lapping at her with your tongue loose and flat or using the tip of your tongue to provide more direct massage. You can also try stimulating her clit with the underside of your tongue, as many women love the sensation that gives.

3 - Use your fingers at the same time as you eat your woman out. Insert a finger or two (with the pads of your fingertips facing the ceiling, assuming she’s lying on her back) and massage her G Spot gently at first and then as firmly as she likes when she gets closer to orgasm.

4 - Some women – though by no means all – also like a finger inserted in their anus during cunnilingus. If you aren’t sure about this, either ask her beforehand or have the little finger of your free hand lubed and in the vicinity of her ass as you eat her out. Ever so lightly touch her anus and if she likes what you’re doing she’ll automatically bear down on your finger or tell you to go for it. Just remember that once a finger or anything else has been near her ass, you should never use it to stimulate her clitoral or vaginal region, as this could cause an infection.

Is driving your spouse wild in bed as easy as using these oral sex techniques? Try them tonight and find out!

In an effort to keep things fresh here at Hot Married Sex, today’s post is a piece of erotica for women. It’s explicit and might not be to the taste of everyone, so don’t say you haven’t been warned. Comments are welcome. Enjoy!

So you’re sitting there in front of your computer reading my blog. I knew you would. I know how you like to check up on me and see what I’m writing. You might pretend to be prim and proper on the outside, but what goes on inside that pretty head of yours is a very different story.

In the privacy of your own mind you have all sorts of dirty thoughts. In fact, you’re a bit of a dirty little slut, aren’t you? Don’t worry, I won’t tell.

I like to imagine you reading these words. I like to imagine watching you. You’re sat there with your legs slightly open. Open them a bit wider so that I can get a better view. That’s right. Hmmm. So tempting…

How does it feel when I kneel down in front of you, place one hand on each of your knees and force your legs apart even further? I lean forward and kiss the fabric of your panties, nuzzling your crotch. I run the tip of my tongue along the edge of your panties, then maybe pull them aside when you least expect it.

You like me to circle your clit with my tongue, don’t you? To suck, gently at first, and then a little harder. My hands support your ass, lifting you slightly so that I can work your pussy more effectively with my mouth, my tongue running along your groove and then suddenly probing your opening.

You like being tongue-fucked, I can tell, but I’m not here to serve. I’m here to give you the pleasure of being used. I stand up and unbutton my jeans, then unzip my fly. I grab the back of your head and pull you toward my crotch as I bring my erect cock out to play. I don’t wait for you to give your permission, I just slide my cock into your hot mouth and start thrusting slowly, my hand still supporting your head.

Hmmm. You’re greedy. You’re taking it so deep that you make the occasional gagging noise, and your eyes are watering. Black rivulets of mascara are running down your cheeks. Makes you look like a common whore.

And you like that, don’t you?

I withdraw from your mouth, pull you to your feet and make you stand over your desk with your hands palm-down on the surface. Behind you, I take a look at the sumptuous curves of your ass and lift your skirt, then pull your panties down and let them fall to your ankles. I enter you quickly, perhaps a little roughly, grabbing a handful of your hair with my left hand as my thrusting establishes a rhythm.

You like being taken like this. You can’t see me because of my position, but you can certainly feel my cock driving into you again and again.

Harder.

Faster.

Deeper.

I reach around and find your clit with my right hand, rubbing you hard and fast as my cock continues to shaft your hot, tight pussy. Rubbing in small circles, you begin writhing until you feel the warm wave of your orgasm exploding through your body.

I wait for your climax to subside, then withdraw and turn you around. A hand on your shoulder pushes you down onto your knees and I quickly bring my penis back to your lips, then slide it over the surface of your tongue into your mouth.

Finish me, bitch.

That’s right. Work it like a pro. Let me hold your head as I fuck your face. I’m gonna cum any minute. I’m gonna –

I grunt as the urge to shoot in your mouth overwhelms me and you immediately start sucking me dry. You have an evil glint in your eye that tells me you love the sense of power and control that this gives you. For a long moment, I’m putty in your hands, and you know it. When you’re done, you lick your lips salaciously and pat me on the ass before tidying yourself up and getting on with your business.

Now who’s been using who? I wonder…

Screaming orgasms might sound like the title of a porn movie, but a screaming orgasm is actually a goal that many couples aspire to achieve. I suppose a screaming orgasm could best be defined as an orgasm so powerful that the lady in question can’t help but make a particularly loud noise, but men can experience the same kind of intensity too – we just tend to grunt rather than squeal.

There is nothing that can guarantee a screaming orgasm (other than getting the wife to deliberately scream when it happens, which is cheating) but there are several steps we can take to make it more likely. I’m writing here primarily for men who want to help their wives experience a screamer, but women who are reading can just as easily apply the same principles to help their husbands crank up the volume when they cum.

Build Up
A screaming orgasm is much more likely if the build up to that orgasm has been lengthy. I don’t just mean 30 or 60 minutes of foreplay, I mean hours of teasing throughout the day. Use dirty talk to get you wife revved up to the point of dampness. Maybe use a little manual stimulation to bring her to the very edge. Then back off until she cools off. Do this several times throughout the day and by the time she gets to bed she should be almost ready to climb the walls.

Avoid The Obvious
When you finally get to the bedroom, you should avoid getting straight down to business. By all means stroke the insides of her thighs, and circle your finger around her clit, but don’t actually push her button or make contact where she wants you to make contact. A good rule of thumb is to spend 15 minutes of foreplay caressing her everywhere except where she really wants to be caressed. It sounds like torture, and it probably is, but it’s a very loving and erotic kind of torture that she will ultimately appreciate.

Take Several Runs
When you feel the time is right, do whatever you normally do to get your wife off. If she has any preferences about how she prefers to orgasm, go for her favourite. Some women like to come through intercourse. Many more would prefer you to practice your muff-diving skills. Others like oral and digital stimulation combined, so both your tongue and your fingers should get involved.

However you go for it, bring her to the edge of orgasm and then stop dead. Withdraw your cock, withdraw your fingers and come up for air. Let the moment subside. Then start again, bringing her to the edge and backing off. Do this several times. If she begins calling you names and writhing like a snake, you know you’re doing it right.

The Big Finish
Having taken several runs at the objective, it’s now time to go for the big finish, but don’t tell her “this is it” or you’ll spoil the element of surprise. Repeat whatever you did in the previous step (that is, deliver her favourite form of stimulation) but this time keep going until he reaches her climax. And keep on going. Continuing to stimulate your wife as she orgasms can often extend that orgasm quite considerably, so don’t stop until she’s totally spent.

You might not help your wife to have screaming orgasms every time you use the ideas presented here, but you’ll certainly help her to achieve orgasms that make her want to scream. And in my book, that’s just as good.