Hot Married Sex

Sex games are a great way of spicing up your sex life, and you don’t need to invest a lot of time or cash to start benefiting from them. In fact, there are several hot games you could play tonight if you already have a few common items around the house.

Sexy Hangman
Grab a notepad and pencil and play hangman, but instead of having your partner guess the names of movies or books, focus on sexual statements of intention such as: “I want to lick you out” or “I want to give you a blow job”. See how many statements you can work through before you start acting them out.

Strip Sex Games
You can turn almost any card or board game into a sex game simply by agreeing to remove an item of clothing whenever you do badly. For example, you could play snakes and ladders and strip something off whenever you slide down a snake, or you could play checkers and strip something off whenever your partner takes one of your pieces.

Strip Twister
Okay, so I’ve already suggested strip games, but Twister is so unique that it warrants its own paragraph as a completely separate sex game. Basically, all you have to do here is play twister and get your partner to remove an item of clothing every time they fall over. Play long enough and at least one of you should be naked. Hmmm. That Twister mat is made of plastic. Be careful with the lube or you might slip.

Truth or Dare
You don’t need any props at all for this sex game. Yep, it’s that old favourite Truth or Dare. Turn the lights low, open a bottle of your favourite beverage and sit together on a warm sofa, then take it in turns to choose a Truth or Dare. If your partner chooses a Truth, ask them something that will force them to reveal more of their sexual psyche. For example, “How many times have you thought of sex today?” If they choose a Dare, consider it an invitation to boss them around for a moment. For example, to paraphrase a couple of statements I gave earlier, you could say “I dare you to lick me out” or “I dare you to give me a blow job”.

I’m sure there are other sex games that you and your spouse can enjoy together, but the ideas given here should at least be enough to get you through the weekend, and you’re sure to be a winner no matter what happens…

The sex escort fantasy is a great role-play for married couples to use when one partner is not quite as turned on as the other, but both would like to be in the same hot mood. The basic idea is that the partner who isn’t quite as aroused adopts the role of a sex escort and agrees to deliver the hottest sexual service their spouse can demand – if the price is right.

Yes, I’m suggesting that you talk about money, just as you would if it were a real sex escort situation. Money doesn’t have to change hands, but acting as if it will gives you good reason to talk about what the “client” spouse wants and how much the “escort” spouse will charge for such a service. And talking about hot sex in what is, for a regular marriage, a fairly unusual scenario (not many couples I know have ever even met a sex escort, let alone been serviced by one), can often be a massive turn-on for both participants. Consider the following scenario…

“So, how much?”

“That depends. What do you want?”

“What do you offer?

“Blow job and hand job, clothed or naked. A blow job is £40. A hand job is £30. Full sex for an hour will cost you one £100. Anal sex is an extra £50. Role play with uniforms is also £50 extra.”

“What else?”

“You want something else?”

“I might.”

“Well, tell me what it is and I’ll give you price.”

“Okay, let’s say I want you to….”

You get the idea. Discussing the sex escort deal in advance of the main event will not only make the role play more realistic, it will also increase the arousal of both you and your spouse. In fact, the spouse playing the escort role could well be just as turned on as the one playing the client role by the time the two of you get to the bedroom.

And once you’re there, all you have to do is make sure is that the service promised is the service delivered. Money might not actually change hands, but a deal is a deal…