Hot Married Sex

Oral sex techniques can help you to increase the amount of satisfaction that your partner gets from oral sex itself, and also increase the intensity of their eventual orgasm.

Here are some oral sex techniques that you can use to drive your lover wild in bed…

Fellatio Techniques

1 - Don’t be afraid of using your hand and masturbating your man whilst you have his cock in your mouth. Although the head (or glans, if you prefer) is the most sensitive part of the penis, stimulating the shaft as well will add a lot to his pleasure.

2 - Use your tongue in different ways. Flick the head of his cock with the tip of your tongue, rub the underside of the shaft (just below the head) with the flat of your tongue and feel free to take his cock out of your mouth and lick it like an ice cream.

3 - Make eye contact. Men are visually stimulated, so look at him when you’re giving him head and let him see how much you’re enjoying it.

4 - Act ravenous. Men love the idea of their wives being hungry for their cocks, so let yourself go and be enthusiastic about it. Just be careful with your teeth, please.

5 - If your hub wants to come in your mouth and you’re not keen because you don’t want his load hitting the back of your throat and making you gag, you can do what many porn stars do and tuck the head of his dick under your tongue as he comes. This will control the flow at the moment of ejaculation and you can then spit or swallow when he has finished.

Cunnilingus Techniques

1 - Don’t go straight for the clitoris. Instead, spend some time licking and gently sucking the lips of her pussy before circling the clit and – eventually – stimulating it directly with your tongue.

2 - You can use your tongue in many different ways (as I told women a few moments ago). Try lapping at her with your tongue loose and flat or using the tip of your tongue to provide more direct massage. You can also try stimulating her clit with the underside of your tongue, as many women love the sensation that gives.

3 - Use your fingers at the same time as you eat your woman out. Insert a finger or two (with the pads of your fingertips facing the ceiling, assuming she’s lying on her back) and massage her G Spot gently at first and then as firmly as she likes when she gets closer to orgasm.

4 - Some women – though by no means all – also like a finger inserted in their anus during cunnilingus. If you aren’t sure about this, either ask her beforehand or have the little finger of your free hand lubed and in the vicinity of her ass as you eat her out. Ever so lightly touch her anus and if she likes what you’re doing she’ll automatically bear down on your finger or tell you to go for it. Just remember that once a finger or anything else has been near her ass, you should never use it to stimulate her clitoral or vaginal region, as this could cause an infection.

Is driving your spouse wild in bed as easy as using these oral sex techniques? Try them tonight and find out!

Sex games are a great way of spicing up your sex life, and you don’t need to invest a lot of time or cash to start benefiting from them. In fact, there are several hot games you could play tonight if you already have a few common items around the house.

Sexy Hangman
Grab a notepad and pencil and play hangman, but instead of having your partner guess the names of movies or books, focus on sexual statements of intention such as: “I want to lick you out” or “I want to give you a blow job”. See how many statements you can work through before you start acting them out.

Strip Sex Games
You can turn almost any card or board game into a sex game simply by agreeing to remove an item of clothing whenever you do badly. For example, you could play snakes and ladders and strip something off whenever you slide down a snake, or you could play checkers and strip something off whenever your partner takes one of your pieces.

Strip Twister
Okay, so I’ve already suggested strip games, but Twister is so unique that it warrants its own paragraph as a completely separate sex game. Basically, all you have to do here is play twister and get your partner to remove an item of clothing every time they fall over. Play long enough and at least one of you should be naked. Hmmm. That Twister mat is made of plastic. Be careful with the lube or you might slip.

Truth or Dare
You don’t need any props at all for this sex game. Yep, it’s that old favourite Truth or Dare. Turn the lights low, open a bottle of your favourite beverage and sit together on a warm sofa, then take it in turns to choose a Truth or Dare. If your partner chooses a Truth, ask them something that will force them to reveal more of their sexual psyche. For example, “How many times have you thought of sex today?” If they choose a Dare, consider it an invitation to boss them around for a moment. For example, to paraphrase a couple of statements I gave earlier, you could say “I dare you to lick me out” or “I dare you to give me a blow job”.

I’m sure there are other sex games that you and your spouse can enjoy together, but the ideas given here should at least be enough to get you through the weekend, and you’re sure to be a winner no matter what happens…

Hot Married Sex is a blog about getting the most out of your sex life with your spouse. Whether you have been married for two years or twenty, making hotter sex a priority has a number of benefits. For example, couples who have hot sex on a regular basis tend to be more intimate in every other area of life. Another benefit is that hot sex is one of the most enjoyable forms of cardio exercise we know of, and can help you to burn a few calories and have fun at the same time. And yes, hot sex can make your marriage stronger.