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Hot Married Quickie Sex

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Hot married quickie sex can be a great way to keep your sex life sizzling even when both you and your spouse are struggling to find the time and energy required for ‘proper’ lovemaking sessions. Hot married quickie sex sessions are defined as those that last 15 minutes or less (including foreplay, although that is sometimes skipped altogether for quickie purposes) and they are the Hot Married Sex equivalent of fast food – perfectly acceptable to keep you going in the short term but not something that you should become totally reliant on.

Quickie sex usually takes place when both partners are already in the mood to get down to business, so foreplay is usually minimal. However, if the hot married wife in the marriage isn’t able to orgasm easily via intercourse alone (this is an extremely common situation), then the quickie session should definitely include manual or oral sex so that the wife is left just as satisfied as the husband at the end of the quickie.

Our top tips for hot married quickie sex are:

Decide if it’s really necessary to have a quickie or whether you can allow the urge to sizzle and simmer throughout the day until you both have time for a longer lovemaking session in the evening. If more time is going to be out of the question, or you think that one or both of might not have the energy or inclination to make love later, having quickie sex can be a good idea.

Since women tend to take longer to orgasm than men, the husband should focus on helping his wife to orgasm as a priority. Although some women don’t mind ‘taking care of their husband’ without achieving their own satisfaction, that isn’t an approach that should be allowed to become the norm. Instead, get used to the woman achieving orgasm first.

When the wife has achieved orgasm, the husband can set about achieving his. Because this is quickie sex, he shouldn’t worry about staying power or performance, but focus entirely on achieving release as quickly as he likes. Since many husbands are used to thinking a great deal about their performance and withholding orgasm for as long as possible, the ability to let go and enjoy the moment is something that they should take full advantage of during quickie sex. Of course, a wife should be just as willing to use her oral skills to bring their husband to orgasm as he was to use his for her pleasure.

Finally, when you have both achieved release through orgasm, be sure to stick around for a few moments longer to share a kiss and a cuddle. Although the quickie sex connection itself might be short and sweet, it can still be very meaningful and help to strengthen your relationship, so don’t treat it as purely mechanical exercise which is devoid of all emotion, because it isn’t.

As stated earlier, quickie sex should not be the only type of sex that takes place between a hot married woman and a hot married man, but hot married quickie sex certainly has a role to play in a marriage. Follow the quickie sex tips provided here and you can enjoy it as another satisfying option inyour hot married sex repertoire.

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How to Get More Sex

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How to get more sex is a question that everyone thinks about at some point. Many people say that they would like to have sex more often than they do right now, and the good news is that having more married sex is quite easy. All you have to do is forget about the frequency and focus on the quality of the sex you already have. If you do this, both of you will naturally want to have hot sex more often.

The problem for too many couples is that the sex they have is rudimentary, repetitive and boring. This being the case, it isn’t surprising that it only takes place once a week or once a month. But when the sex is hot, varied and exciting, both partners will want to enjoy it more often. In other words, if you look after the quality, the quantity will take care of itself.

The biggest enemy of hot sex is routine. Even the hottest sexual scenario which originally makes him hard and her damp at the sheer mention of it will lose its appeal if it is repeated over and over with no variety. You should therefore make an effort to shake things up on a regular basis, and avoid doing the same thing twice in one week. If you can avoid doing the same thing twice in a month, so much the better.

Married couples have so many options when it comes to having hot sex that achieving this isn’t as difficult as it might sound. You can role play a dozen different scenarios, have sex in at least half a dozen different places and try scores of sexual positions. One day she can be Miss Scarlet in the kitchen with the whipped cream, and the next time he can be Colonel Shafter in the bedroom with the blindfold. You can take erotic photographs or videos of each other, talk dirty, or even take the wedding dress out of storage and rediscover the erotic potential of the good old-fashioned missionary position. Make as much noise as you can during sex on one day, and try to be totally silent the next… I could continue listing different ways of making sex varied and novel, but if you don’t get the idea by now then you aren’t paying attention.

Unless one partner has a medical problem which causes low libido (in which case a visit to the doctors is in order) most couples can enjoy more sex by forgetting about frequency and focusing on making the sex that they do have as hot as varied as possible, as just described.

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