Hot Married Sex readers who would like to spice up their sex lives with a few online porn movies but aren’t sure where to start might like to take a look at our own Top Five Porn Movies recommendations. Each of the movies in our top five has been hand-picked for its high-quality of couples-friendly content, and all of the following titles can be watched online (or downloaded) at VideoBox.

Lady in the Iron Mask
This historical feature (or partly-costumed drama, if you prefer) takes place in Versailles, where the King of France has two daughters who happen to be twins. One twin is innocent and virginal whilst the other is sexually obsessed…

Bad Wives #1
A fantastically hot tale of husbands, wives and erotic obsession. This movie was made a few years ago but remains a landmark title that you will both love.

All In
We recommended playing strip games in our Sex Games article, and this movie shows just how much of a turn-on a simple game of strip poker can be…

Desperately Horny Housewives
Okay, so the plot in this movie is a bit thin on the ground, but if you like the idea of seeing what the ladies of Middle View Heights get up to, Desperately Horny Housewives lays everything bare.

Gladiator
This epic from the Private stable is set in Roman times and reveals that the Gladiators in the title did a whole lot more than fight each other to the death. In fact, there’s very little fighting here at all.

As we said earlier, you can watch and download any of these Top Five Porn Movies – and over 6,500 more – from the comfort of your own PC. Visit our XXX Links page and look at the VideoBox entry for further details.

Enjoy!

In a previous Hot Married Sex post entitled Porn to be Wild? I talked about whether watching porn was a good or bad thing in a marriage, and my conclusion was that it depends on the people in the marriage. If both partners are happy to watch porn and derive pleasure and benefit from it then there’s no reason not to as far as I can see.

That said, I think we all have to be careful, especially if there are kids or visitors in the house. Having your Aunt Mabel come across your suuposedly well-hidden DVD stash because you forgot to rescue it from the spare room isn’t something that you’d be likely to forget in a hurry, and it’s because of risks like this that more and more couples are beginning to rely exclusively on streaming or downloadable porn.

Streaming porn is online porn that you watch on your desktop or laptop computer, and the advantage is that it’s convenient (no shopping trips required if the mood hits you suddenly) and there are no physical DVDs to hide from Aunt Mabel. Downloadable porn is basically the same as streaming porn, but you can store it on the hard disc of your PC, laptop or USB drive and watch it again and again without being online. Both types of porn are available via my XXX Links page.

There is a great piece of FREE software called Heat Seek that I strongly recommend to anyone who wants to keep their online porn collection private and secure. Heat Seek is a free download and it enables you to browse adult sites in complete privacy, save files securely and password protect everything. It also gives you access to loads of free online porn from quality sources.

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Porn videos don’t just have to be watched as their directors intended. There are a few creative porn video uses that are almost artistic yet still succeed in establishing an erotic, if not downright horny, atmosphere. I suggest you pick a night when you and your spouse are guaranteed to be alone (you won’t want unexpected visitors) and then consider using one of the creative porn ideas below to establish a more intense sexual ambience in your home…

Muted Porn
Put a porn DVD into your player and then mute the sound. At the same time, play your favourite CD on your hi-fi and sit down with your spouse to enjoy a conversation over your favourite drink. There’s something unusual about listening to smooth jazz or classical music and enjoying a night of conversation whilst the TV is showing porn stars going at it like animals in heat.

Blind Porn
Here’s a variation on the previous idea. This time you should play a porn DVD and turn off the TV but have the audio coming through a surround sound system, so that you can hear but not see the action. Conversation may be more stilted when you try this, but you’ll be surprised at how much of a turn on listening to other people having hot sex can be.

Big Screen Porn
If you have a multimedia projector (you can now buy rudimentary but serviceable models for just a few hundred dollars) then  consider closing the curtains and projecting your favourite porn film onto your bedroom wall. Getting down and dirty with larger-than life porn stars in the background will be something you’ll remember for a long time.

Hot Married Variations
Don’t like the idea of having regular porn in the house? Why not record your own movie with your spouse and then use that to replace the porn DVD in any of the previous suggestions? If you don’t like watching yourself, try the blind porn idea. If you don’t like listening, try the muted porn. And if you’re happy to watch and listen to yourself, why not put yourself on the big screen?

Being creative with porn can lead to a much more memorable night than simply watching it on TV with the remote in your hand. The suggestions presented here put the porn in the background so that you and your spouse can focus on what’s most important – each other.

PS – Want some inspiration? Take a look at the new XXX Links page.

Is pornography an aid or an obstacle as far as having hot married sex is concerned? This is a question that many people ask, but the short answer is that there is no short answer. Whether porn enhances a relationship or otherwise depends on the individuals involved in the marriage and what their perceptions of porn are to begin with.

Couples who agree that porn is harmless fun can get a great deal out of porn. They can use it together to increase libido, maybe learn a few tricks and spark a hot, steamy session that brings them closer.

Couples who agree that porn isn’t harmless fun – for whatever reason – can choose to avoid it and find other ways of increasing their libido, expanding their sexual repertoires and keep sex hot and exciting.

The only couples who might have some difficulty with porn is where one partner is really into it and the other isn’t. In this scenario I believe the spouse who is enthusiastic about porn has to discuss the issue with their partner. There are a couple of questions that could be asked:

What is your partner’s definition of porn? It could be that they assume all porn is hardcore to the extreme and involves peanut butter pony play in gimp masks. If so, they might still feel comfortable watching much gentler porn with a plot that provides a more romantic context.

How would they feel about you watching porn in private from time to time? If it’s an issue for them you need to find out so that you can respect the wishes of your spouse and keep your marriage strong and healthy. Watching porn in secret may give you a thrill in the short term, but if the cost is marital peace and harmony, I’d say the short term thrill would come at far too big a price.

What alternatives to porn would your partner be willing to explore? How about verbal porn, where you both create your own scenarios? Or maybe reading explicit fiction to each other would provide all the thrill you need to pep up your sex life? The post on Talking Dirty might be particularly useful here.

This is a big subject, so I will be revisiting it in the near future. For now, I’d conclude that porn isn’t actually necessary for a married couple to have hot sex, but that it does help many – especially when they’ve been together for years and know every inch of each other intimately.