Want to spice up your sex life? One great way to do just that is to play our own version of 20 Questions, which we call 20 Hot Married Sex Prompts. The rules of this sex game are very simple – sit down with your spouse and a bottle of wine (optional) and spend some time giving each other the Hot Married Sex Prompts that are provided below.

The aim of the Hot Married Sex Prompts is to stimulate sexual conversation, so be sure to respond as fully as possible rather than with evasive or one-line responses. Also note that it is more important to go into as much detail as possible than it is to get through the complete lists of prompts in one sitting…

01 – Describe your favourite sexual fantasy.

02 – Tell me about your favourite turn-on.

03 – What is the horniest time you have ever spent with me?

04 – Describe your ideal Hot Married Sex session.

05 – What is you favourite porn film and why?

06 – What do I do that really turns you on?

07 – What words do you find sexually arousing?

08 – Try and turn me on just by talking dirty.

09 – Name two characters that we could role play and describe the situation.

10 – What sexual fantasy would you most like to play out with me?

11 – What kind of noises turn you on?

12 – Name one way in which you would improve our sex life.

13 – What’s the naughtiest thought you’ve had this week?

14 – What kind of music would you most like to have sex to?

15 – What new sexual nicknames could we call each other?

16 – How would you like to pretend that we’re complete strangers?

17 – Tell me about the first sexual fantasy you can ever remember.

18 – Touch me.

19 – What part of me would you like to kiss right now?

20 – What Hot Married Sex Prompts of our own should we add to this list?

As you can see, Hot Married Sex Prompts is a very simple game, and this list of 20 initial prompts is one that you can expand with your spouse to make it even more applicable to you both as a couple. Try playing the game sometime soon as see how long you can play for before you both get carried away…

PS – If you and your spouse come up with Hot Married Sex Prompts that you would like to share with other Hot Married Sex readers, feel free to leave a comment below.

Virtual sex is something that seems to be increasingly common, thanks in no small part to online worlds such as Second Life. These allow you to adopt an on-screen persona known as an avatar and enjoy a virtual life in a surprisingly well rendered 3D environment. With the content of the virtual world being created by the users themselves, it isn’t a shock to discover that sex plays as big a part of virtual life as it does real life.

Someone who is totally new to virtual worlds might be surprised to learn that in a place like Second Life you can visit strip clubs, hire escorts, explore BDSM dungeons, take in a porn movie or simply meet a girlfriend and get jiggy in the privacy of your own virtual home. Players can even get married in Second Life.

With full support for voice chat on private channels as well as text chat, virtual sex in a world like Second Life can be likened to animated phone sex. And whilst many married couples would consider such virtual sex to be tantamount to cheating if their spouse got involved with a third party, couples can play the game together and explore their sexual fantasies in a whole new way.

If you have two computers in the house, you could both log onto Second Life, spend a little time making your avatars look attractive (the ‘noob’ look isn’t very appealing) and then experience various sexual scenarios with each other. Fancy having sex outdoors with a dozen or more people watching? There are open sex areas where you can do just that. Want to have a more romantic experience in a virtual ballroom (perhaps because you have kids who make the real thing impossible right now)? You can do that too. In fact, as long as it’s legal and consenting, there’s nothing you can’t do in Second Life.

Virtual sex isn’t for everyone by any means, and after dabbling for a while you might find that you prefer a good old-fashioned conversation. On the other hand, you might revel in the ability to play around with slave / master scenarios, being naughty in public and making your avatars as sexually brazen as possible.

Of course, Second Life isn’t all about sex, and there’s lots of other things that you and your spouse can do in this virtual world. Make friends from around the world, go for a walk through a rain forest, visit Amsterdam, New York, Paris or Venice. If you can imagine it, the chances are that you can do it.

Creating a Second Life character and playing the game costs nothing (though you may want to upgrade your account for a few dollars so that you can buy your own land if you intend to play long term) so if you fancy experiencing virtual hot married sex with your spouse just to see what it’s like, you can do so. Simply visit the Second Life web site to get started.

The sex escort fantasy is a great role-play for married couples to use when one partner is not quite as turned on as the other, but both would like to be in the same hot mood. The basic idea is that the partner who isn’t quite as aroused adopts the role of a sex escort and agrees to deliver the hottest sexual service their spouse can demand – if the price is right.

Yes, I’m suggesting that you talk about money, just as you would if it were a real sex escort situation. Money doesn’t have to change hands, but acting as if it will gives you good reason to talk about what the ‘client’ spouse wants and how much the ‘escort’ spouse will charge for such a service. And talking about hot sex in what is, for a regular marriage, a fairly unusual scenario (not many couples I know have ever even met a sex escort, let alone been serviced by one), can often be a massive turn-on for both participants. Consider the following scenario…

‘So, how much?’

‘That depends. What do you want?’

‘What do you offer?’

‘Blow job and hand job, clothed or naked. A blow job is £40. A hand job is £30. Full sex for an hour will cost you one £100. Role play with uniforms is an extra.’

‘What else?’

‘You want something else?’

‘I might.’

‘Well, tell me what it is and I’ll give you price.’

‘Okay, let’s say that I want you to….’

You get the idea. Discussing the sex escort deal in advance of the main event will not only make the role play more realistic, it will also increase the arousal of both you and your spouse. In fact, the spouse playing the escort role could well be just as turned on as the one playing the client role by the time the two of you get to the bedroom.

And once you’re there, all you have to do is make sure is that the service promised is the service delivered. Money might not actually change hands, but a deal is a deal…

Uniform sex is a term used to describe sex where one or both partners is dressed in a role-play outfit that the other finds arousing. Common uniforms used for sex games between a husband and wife include police, naval, nursing and military uniforms, nun’s habits, French maid costumes and dominatrix outfits.

Although simply wearing a uniform might be enough to turn your partner on, for uniform sex to be most satisfying the person wearing it should try to adopt the persona and characteristics of the character they are portraying. Think of yourself as an actor or actress who is about to play a part, and when you step into your uniform, step into character.

Some couples like the idea of having sex in uniform, but aren’t confident in their ability to ‘carry it off’ in terms of personality and character. It is for those readers that I offer my four-step quick-and-easy guide to acting in sex uniform scenarios:

1 – Identify A Role Model
First, think of someone who really is like the character that you want to portray, For example, if you want to wear a saucy French maid uniform, think of any saucy French maids you have seen on television or in movies.

2 – Identify Their Traits
Having found a role model, study them and identify the main traits that make them what they are. How do they talk? How do they walk? How do they use their eyes? What body language do they use? You can discover all of this from watching the television shows or movies that your chosen role model character appears in. Think of this as acting class.

3 – Adopt A New Name
Next, adopt a new name that is more in keeping with your character. If your own name would suit the role then by all means stick with it, otherwise choose a name that fits the uniform. This will help both you and your partner to view the character as being real.

4 – Be Your Role Model
Now it’s time to put everything together so that you and your partner can enjoy some hot uniform sex. To do this, put on the outfit and – as you do – imagine yourself stepping into the shoes of the role model you selected previously. Talk the way they talk, walk the way they walk, use your eyes and body language in the same way, and so on. Also, make sure that your partner has been instructed to view you as the character (and not their spouse) whenever you are in uniform. The more you can both immerse yourself in the game, the more satisfying it will be.

Uniform sex takes a little planning and preparation, but if you and your partner are willing to suspend disbelief and play along with each other, it can be a great fantasy experience. Fancy having sex with a member of the police force, a doctor or nurse or a television newsreader without breaking those marriage vows? Well, now you can. So the question is, who are you going to be tonight?

Sex games are a great way of spicing up your sex life, and you don’t need to invest a lot of time or cash to start benefiting from them. In fact, there are several hot games you could play tonight if you already have a few common items around the house.

Sexy Hangman
Grab a notepad and pencil and play hangman, but instead of having your partner guess the names of movies or books, focus on sexual statements of intention such as: ‘I want to tease you with my tongue…’ or ‘I want to make you come…’. See how many statements you can work through before you start acting them out.

Strip [Insert Game Here]
You can turn almost any card or board game into a sex game simply by agreeing to remove an item of clothing whenever you do badly. For example, you could play snakes and ladders and strip something off whenever you slide down a snake, or you could play checkers and strip something off whenever your partner takes one of your pieces. And, of course, there’s always strip poker…

Strip Twister
Okay, so I’ve already suggested strip games, but Twister is so unique that it warrants its own paragraph as a completely separate sex game. Basically, all you have to do here is play twister and get your partner to remove an item of clothing every time they fall over. Play long enough and at least one of you should be naked. Hmmm. That Twister mat is made of plastic. Be careful with the lube or you might slip.

Truth or Dare
You don’t need any props at all for this sex game. Yep, it’s that old favourite Truth or Dare. Turn the lights low, open a bottle of your favourite beverage and sit together on a warm sofa, then take it in turns to choose a Truth or Dare. If your partner chooses a Truth, ask them something that will force them to reveal more of their sexual psyche. For example, ‘How many times have you thought of sex today?’ If they choose a Dare, consider it an invitation to boss them around for a moment. For example, to paraphrase a couple of statements I gave earlier, you could say ‘I dare you to tease me with your tongue’ or ‘I dare you to make me come’.

I’m sure there are other sex games that you and your spouse can enjoy together, but the ideas given here should at least be enough to get you through the next few days, and you’re sure to be a winner no matter what happens…