Hot Married Sex

Dirty sex, filthy sex, nasty sex – it seems that most of us like to, or are at least in the habit of, describing sex in fairly dark ways. Of course, very few of us really believe that sex is dirty, filthy or nasty, but there is something about ‘getting down and dirty’ that sounds a lot more appealing than ‘making sweet sweet love’.

The same observation can be made about the way in which we talk to our partners about and during the sexual act. ‘I want to ride you hard’ tends to get the primal desires roused far more effectively than ‘I want to enjoy rigorous intercourse with you’, even though both statements say roughly the same thing.

I think that our preference for talking dirty stems from cultural ideas about sex that were handed down to us during childhood. Many of us were taught, either explicitly or implicitly, that words such as ‘cock’ and ‘fuck’ were ‘dirty, nasty words’ and shouldn’t be used to describe male genitalia or the act of intercourse. In fact, they were the regular Saxon words for precisely those things, and it wasn’t until society arbitrarily decided they were impolite that they were viewed as anything other than regular words. Naturally, as soon as polite society outlawed the open use of such words, they were all endowed with the ability to turn us on more than they had ever done previously.

Of course, some people really do think that sex itself is a dirty subject, and some people consider even married sex to be a waste of time unless the couple in question are trying to have children. Okay, maybe such people will concede that it’s acceptable to have a bit of missionary once a month as a token, but even mention oral sex, anal sex, mutual masturbation or handcuffs and they will look at you as if you need locking away.

In a way, this isn’t such a bad thing, because it can add a hue of teenage rebellion to married sex that keeps us feeling young and daring. ‘How many other married couples fuck as hot and hard as we do?’ we might ask ourselves in a self-congratulatory way. The fact is that millions of other married couples are just as hot and hard in the bedroom, but because society likes to keep such facts away from the public consciousness, we all end up feeling a bit unique and rather proud.

My advice is to take that sense of pride and run with it by continuing to have as much dirty, filthy, nasty sex as you like. It won’t change anything, but embracing the concept head on (if you will) can make your hot married sex even more exciting than it already is.